Part 1 of a three-part mini series based on the book HELP! by Oliver Burkeman. This episode is inspired by the article titled 'How To Please None Of The People None Of The Time' that originally featured as a column in The Guardian.
In this episode, you'll learn how trying to please people is possible the worst way to make a decision, whether with family and friends or in the work and business setting.
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